- hellooo it's meee ashlley! and umm... i guess this blog will just be about how i dislike mean ppl lol
In the past couple of years i noticed that there is just a huge influx of like... really mean people. it's as if being mean is seen as some kind of trend or something that people deem funny or cool. people often seek out those who they deem "weird" and assign them "person of the month" to hate and make fun of all the time. i think people are just soooo obsessed with getting the "perfect" gotcha on someone so they can screenshot it and tell the internet how much they "totally pwned!1!" some rando on the web.(￣ω￣;) i think its such loser behavior and i have no clue why we normalized this kind of shit.
It's especially sinister and gross when the internet picks a random autistic person to bully and harass for several weeks simply because they have interests or mannerisms that are "unusual" by their standards. or even worse, when they choose a random child to dunk on for months at a time. i never understood the hatred for kids being kids online. everytime there's a viral video of a kid having fun and being a little cringe there will always be thousands and thousands of comments making fun of them and saying horrible things like "muhh we shuld bring bak bullyinnnggg hurr duur" (￣_￣)・・・like huh? how much of a loser do you have to be to say that a child..expressing pure happiness and joy for something they like makes them deserving of being harshly ridiculed..
Not only that, i realized this comes to adults too. i think a lot of people have this idea that adults are supposed to be miserable people who cannot laugh or have fun or be silly. a video of an adult woman goes viral and shes just being silly and enjoying life and everyone in the comments will be sooooo annoying and miserable about it.... saying things like "ughhh shouldnt u be doing ur taxes." or "lol at ur big ageee lolll" like omg shut uppppppp!ヽ( `д´*)ノ people are just sooo miserable and mean. these people are sooooo unsatisfied with their pathetic boring unhappy lives that they feel they MUST drag others down with them and make this sad too... its sick!
I always try to be positive and happy and in turn, make sure others are happy too.. i dont know why people are so anti-kindness and anti-fun.. people HATE fun and they HATE when people are happy. it's really sad... just how angry people get when others are being kind too..(｡╯︵╰｡) there's so many tweets on that damn silly bird app of people saying "um maybe being nice and kind and considerate of others' feelings is actually cool and should be encouraged." and a bunch of mean heartless goblins will shit up the quote retweets and comment sections with posts like "ughhh yall just need to be less sensitive..", "maybe ppl should grow thicker skin" or "nobody owes anyone kindness." blah blah blah all i'm hearing is ">:((( ima heartless loser who gets off to other people's misery because how fucking DARE someone be happy and content with their lives when IM not happy or content with mine?!? HMPH! (＃`Д´)"
It costs zero dollars, pesos, yen, krone, euros, rupees, etc... to just be kind, understanding, considerate, and patient with others. it doesn't hurt to just be kind. a lot of people have a "well if no one (one person they bumped into while ordering a sandwich at subway (￢_￢;) ) is nice to me then why should i be nice to anyone?" or "grrr humans are disgusting creatures they deserve NOTHING" (ouchh the edge..) the one not so nice response you received from one stranger should not be the reasoning behind your refusal to treat others as human being with feelings and emotions. every person you meet whether in person or online is a human being with thoughts, feelings, emotions, ambitions, goals, etc... treat them as if they are another you. (⇀‸↼‶)
I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate someone bumping into you and not saying "im sorry" or "excuse me" when they do. you wouldn't appreciate someone refusing to say thank you when you worked hard for them or went out of your way to do something for them. you wouldn't like it if someone told you that you looked ugly, smelled bad, sound annoying, etc.. so why do you think that it is appropriate to do or say these things to others? (＠_＠) when you are mean and rude to others it speaks very loudly about your own character and life. only those who truly hate themselves and their own lives would go out of their way to be rude and distasteful to others. people who are good...and live fulfilling and genuine lives full of love and care.. it is obvious. you can see it in them. how they treat others, how they talk, how they go through life.
Treat others the way you wish to be treated. don't be that one guy everyone hates and excludes because they're are hugggeeee buzzkill who makes people feel bad for having fun and dancing. people go to clubs with their friends and laugh and make fun of them for dancing on the dance flooor...can you believe that? people being laughed at for dancing..at a club..? (-_-;)・・・
how silly.. ( ´ ∀ ` )
- ashley